Friday, March 25, 2011

Going public

Well I'm back, with Christmas, school going back and getting Bailey settled into kinder it has been a little crazy here to say the least! Things have settled right down, the boys are enjoying school, Damon is on the SRC...which makes me laugh, he thought he would be getting out of work because of the meetings etc BUT he actually has more work to do ha ha that kid makes me laugh!
Bailey had a rough trot at kinder he really wasn't enjoying it, and cried on a daily basis (gosh it was hard on both of us) but he has made some really good friends and he seems to be 100% better, which brings a huge smile to my face.

So for my confession, Ted and I separated in August last year, I didn't want to tell people as I wasn't ready for all the questions, but I am at peace with my decision, and think its the best thing I have ever done. I feel like the old me again, I'm happy, I'm loving life, and enjoying my boys even more then before.
I will admit it is hard doing it all on my own but to be honest I wouldn't have it any other way, I love my new found freedom, I love that I don't have to answer to anyone else, and I don't have to worry about what the other person is doing...
The best decision I have made was moving home and being closer to my mum and family, the kids adore her, as she does them, I really hated living so far away from her, and the boys not knowing their cousins...
I have always been close with one cousin but since moving back we have become even closer and I consider her one of my closest friends, and I don't think that would have happened if I continued to move every 3 years.
So there you have it..its out for everyone to see and I feel happy and relieved that I have finally opened up..
I'm a single mum to 5 boys...what have I done ha ha ha


  1. WOW! You had me stumped when I read about the separation!
    Glad you're feeling awesome about it though & that the kids are happy.

  2. Nice to have you back missy! Supermum......X